TRUSTED LIAISON

to the world of Luxury Play &  Elite Sex-Positive Culture

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Access isn't for sale. It's earned.

 

With over a decade of trust and authority inside the most discreet global ENM Lifestyle communities, luxury play parties, and sexual wellness experiences, I open carefully-selected doors to connect brands, organizers, and thought leaders to audiences that money alone can’t buy.

 

Application ≠ guarantee to work with me.

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ACCESS + AUTHORITY + EXPERIENCE = RESULTS

WHAT MAKES ME DIFFERENT?

Featured, Trusted, and Proven on the Global Stage.

  • Featured in The New York Times as an authority on the global play party scene

  • Led international expansion and tripled market growth as former VP of Marketing at a Mark Cuban company

  • Guest, host, and advisor of high-end erotic events since 2016

 

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Most brands want to reach the luxury end of the sex-positive market. Few can. Access isn’t for sale. It’s earned.

My 3 Pillars of Value:

  • Access

A vetted network of play party organizers, thought leaders, and sextech innovators. Tens of thousands of members, millions of followers, and doors closed to outsiders.

  • Authority

A decade of event hosting, consulting, and international brand building. Trusted by both the communities and the companies.

  • Results

Growth strategies that drive prestige, revenue, and influence — from international expansions to sponsorship deals that convert.

Who I work with.

If you’re here, you already know this market is the future. If you’re still questioning whether this market matters, you’re already behind.

SEXTECH + SEXUAL HEALTH + WELLNESS BRANDS

→ Seeking authentic, vetted access to sex-positive consumers & influencers.

MAINSTREAM LUXURY BRANDS

→ Ready to tap into one of the fastest-growing and most loyal niche Lifestyle markets with credibility and discretion.

EVENT ORGANIZERS + HOSTS

→ Looking for integrity-driven growth, sustainable business models, and high-value sponsorships.

SUCCESS STORIES

Results speak louder than introductions. Access through Ally = doors that don’t open for others.

Global Expansion

Advised a travel app during its ENM/Lifestyle launch → facilitated partnerships that took them into 3 new countries and grew their user base 10x

Sponsorship Wins

Brokered ongoing paid and product brand sponsorships for multiple luxury play parties

Press & PR Impact

Secured targeted podcast and influencer introductions for book and product launches and facilitated press and influencer attendance for play parties and openings.

Health Innovation

Supported US market expansion and European launch for a sexual wellness product via community development and strategic brand partnerships.

I'M ALLY ISEMAN.

I don't work with everyone.

 

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My discretion is my reputation. Communities, companies, and creators trust me because I protect the access I’ve built. Brands, organizers, and leaders trust me because I curate who I introduce into these spaces as carefully as they curate their vetted members.

Applications are reviewed carefully, and not every client is accepted. If we work together, it’s because I believe in your brand, your mission, and your ability to represent this market with integrity.

If you are ready to invest at the highest level — financially and reputationally — apply below. Access is never guaranteed, but the right partners know the value.

"My girl Ally Iseman, she IS that guide. She’s not guessing; she knows this territory."

 
Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert To Millions"

"When Ally talks about non-monogamy, it just makes sense."

 
Dr. Tara, Sex + Relationship Expert @luvbites.co

YOUR LUXURY EROTIC LIFESTYLE LIAISON

 

I’ve spent the last decade building bridges between luxury play communities, sexual wellness brands, and mainstream companies seeking to enter this space with credibility and integrity.

As a consultant, speaker, and liaison with two decades of marketing and entertainment industry eperience, I bring a rare combination of access, strategy, and discretion.

Because when it comes to this world, access is everything.

And I have it.

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CONSULTING PATHWAYS

Discreet. Tailored. Effective.

I work with clients on a per project or monthly retainer basis. Services fall into three tiers of support:

TIER I

per project / monthly retainer

  • Introductions: Vetted introductions to exclusive communities, podcasts, content creators, influential voices, brands, and thought leaders

TIER II

per project / monthly retainer

  • Introductions: Vetted introductions to exclusive communities, podcasts, content creators, influential voices, brands, and thought leaders
  • Strategy Development: Mapping, positioning, and access with clear growth plans.

TIER III

per project / monthly retainer

  • Introductions: Vetted introductions to exclusive communities, podcasts, content creators, influential voices, brands, and thought leaders.
  • Strategy: Mapping, positioning, and access with clear growth plans.
  • Implementation: Full execution, including communications, KPIs, and partnership management

Additional Services

per project / monthly retainer

  • Consulting for play party organizers on business model strategy, partnership growth, and sustainable scaling with integrity.
  • Speaking and writing for brands and publications — bringing thought leadership on modern relationships, luxury erotic culture, and sexual wellness to stages and media outlets worldwide.

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Completion of this form does not guarantee access to my services. All applications are reviewed carefully. Only select clients are invited to move forward after the initial call.

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