"When Ally talks about non-monogamy, it just makes sense."
Dr. Tara, Sex + Relationship Expert @luvbites.co
"We are living through a massive, temporal moment where the old 'default' relationship constructs are dissolving, and people are frustrated, disillusioned, and cranky. Even worse, they are lonely.Â
Ally is at the forefront of this sea change. She specializes in Intentional Relationship Designâessentially, the practice of moving from 'inherited' relationship scripts to 'designed' ones.
She is incredibly smart, personable, beautiful, and business-savvy, with deep experience helping high-performers navigate the relationship minefield. She doesnât just talk about 'dating'; she frames relationship structures as scalable, customizable systems that should be designed with the same rigor as a business."
Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert To Millions"
"We started working with Ally Iseman in May 2024, right as Arya was hitting its stride. She brought a sharp mix of strategy, education, and cultural fluency that helped us refine our positioning and grow our reach.
Ally created custom educational content for Arya, including digital workshops and written pieces that made complex relationship dynamics feel accessible and grounded. Those accelerated our growth in a way that felt natural and right.
Since partnering with Ally, we've seen real expansion in reach and engagement with new audiences, plus strong feedback around trust and clarity. Ally remains an active and trusted partner. Her work continues to shape how Arya shows up in the world, and we're grateful for her insight and consistency."
Offer Yehudai, CEO & Founder, AryaÂ
"Ally Iseman is basically your favorite rom-com lead if she moonlighted as the mastermind behind elite and mysterious adult play parties in European palaces."
Dustin Rybka, Sex Party FM
"Ally is a renaissance woman of alternative relationships. Whether you want to learn, listen, experience, grow, and/or feel held in exploration of non-monogamy, Ally is a skilled guide and facilitator.âÂ
âNicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, Sluts & Scholars
 âAlly was the first partner we onboarded during early growth, and her influence has been foundational. As a consultant, Ally helped us expand our roots via an offshoot into the Lifestyle space with clarity, warmth, and strategic insight. She served as the ultimate connectorâbridging communities, perspectives, and opportunities we hadnât yet tapped.
Her deep understanding of diverse relationship structures was instrumental in shaping our inclusive ethos. Ally educated our team on the nuanced needs within these communities and highlighted the importance of flexible, welcoming, and non-judgmental tools. Her guidance helped us build a custom platform that truly reflects our values of openness and belonging.
Ally continues to serve as a trusted advisor, offering thoughtful counsel and meaningful connections. Her presence remains invaluable to our brand and product's evolution, and weâre deeply grateful for her ongoing partnership."
Marie DeCosse, CEO & Founder, NOMAD
Client Testimonials
"Ally is an incredible guide. When my husband and I began exploring non-monogamy, Ally was instrumental in helping us navigate all the new terrain and uncertainty that comes along with it. Whether itâs identifying boundaries or finding new uncharted curiosities, Ally is able to hold the space for whatever emerges with so much care and heart. Her passion for working with the deeper levels of human experience is clear. I canât recommend her highly enough."
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"Thank you again, for everything you do. I am grateful these resources exist and that people have taken the time and care to really help guide others into healthy ways to experience these lifestyles and make them WAY less scary and way more approachable."
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"Thank you and keep sharing your expertise and knowledge of pleasure... it's made a huge difference in opening my mind to possibilities I never imagined or entertained in my younger days. As a recent widow, I'm on a whole new journey."
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"Your content is always a reminder to stay mindful and practice healthy communication."
"Ally just gets it. When I am in need of insight into a conflict regarding my partnerships, Ally leans in and really listens. Her responses are thoughtful and she takes my personality traits into account, which is a rare find in this space where boilerplate answers tend to be the norm. Not with Ally. Her dedication to my outcomes shines through in how she receives and gives words of encouragement, how she asks questions for clarity, and how she holds space for all of the emotions associated with the ups and downs of partnership. Her containers are safe and empathetic at their core. She is a wealth of knowledge, but more than that, she pours her heart into what she does with Passport 2 Pleasure and that makes all the difference."
"Ally was a game-changer for my wife and I. Vibrantly demonstrating what it means to say an âenthusiastic yesâ to lifeâs possibilities and our own inner desires. She also demonstrated with equal gusto the power of ânoâ as a means to keep space for what truly makes us feel nourished in the world. A perfect guide to brave new worlds, Allyâs one-of-a-kind mix of spiritual wisdom, sassy humor, and empathetic connection gave my wife and I much of the inspiration, and more importantly, the tools, to navigate this complicated but rewarding lifestyle."Â
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"As someone who is navigating ENM with a partner currently, it's super helpful to hear of your experiences. Being able to adapt based on the information at hand and to have open communication has been mind-blowing! You have been really helpful and I appreciate your honesty."
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"You popping up in my suggestions is a freaking GIFT! I am beyond excited!"
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"I like your work very much, it's so well thought out and approachable. I'm an instant fan!"
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