Love isn't a destination, it's a relation-trip.
I work with singles, couples, and moresomes who are tired of guessing, repeating patterns, or “trying harder” without getting anywhere.
You want to open up without breaking up.
You want deeper intimacy and more freedom.
You want tools—not just theories.
This is where we raise your Relationship IQ (RQ), develop skills that translate from the bedroom to the boardroom, and build something sustainable, pleasure-led, and entirely yours.
Whether you're redesigning your dating strategy or reshaping your entire connection model, we don’t just talk about it.
We build it—step by step.
But I only take 5 private clients at a time.
If you want in, you’ll need to apply.
Please watch this short video before applying. If it doesn’t resonate, this coaching isn’t the right fit.
What You Get
(once accepted)
Results
my clients have created:
This is for you if:
Susan Bratton
Intimacy Expert to Millions
"We are living through a massive, temporal moment where the old 'default' relationship constructs are dissolving, and people are frustrated, disillusioned, and cranky. Even worse, they are lonely.
Ally is at the forefront of this sea change. She specializes in Intentional Relationship Design—essentially, the practice of moving from 'inherited' relationship scripts to 'designed' ones.
She is incredibly smart, personable, beautiful, and business-savvy, with deep experience helping high-performers navigate the relationship minefield. She doesn’t just talk about 'dating'; she frames relationship structures as scalable, customizable systems that should be designed with the same rigor as a business."
Coaching Services
Before You Apply:
- Watch the short video above to understand how I work
- Make sure your partner(s) are on board (if applicable)
- Know your budget—this is an investment that pays dividends
- Understand that I will say no if it’s not a fit
Meet Your Guide
Ally Iseman, certified relationship coach, non-monogamy educator, and intimacy architect, has helped thousands of people build the relationships they want through intention, communication, and pleasure – without getting caught up in the binary labels of single or partnered, monogamous or open. She’s spent nearly a decade teaching people the skills and tools to create their own relationship style, one that enriches and fulfils them and their partner(s), and allows them to become the active architects of their own joy and pleasure.
Ally is a highly sought-after speaker, writer, consultant, and on-screen expert for modern relationships of all kinds, kink education, and pleasure travel. She’s also the Founder of the inclusive relationship resource platform Passport2Pleasure.com and KAVANOS, a first-of-its-kind traveling, invite-only, immersive erotic art experience.
Featured in publications like The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, GRAZIA, and Well+Good, she’s also a regular contributor to Sexual Health Magazine as well as Arya and Afterglow. Ally is also on the advisory board for ENM dating app Tabu, ProDX Health, and NOMAD.
Bringing a fresh, direct, and inclusive perspective, her approach is borne out of her training as an ICF Certified Relationship Coach, NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional and her own hard-won experiences in customizing her own consensually non-monogamous relationship style through decades of research and work with hundreds of clients. Whether you want to open up your relationship to include other people, or you just want to open up more authentically to each other, Ally will help you open up without breaking up!
"Ally Iseman IS that guide. She’s not guessing; she knows this territory."
—Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert To Millions"
"When Ally talks about non-monogamy, it just makes sense."
—Dr. Tara, Sex + Relationship Expert
Ally was a game-changer for my husband and I. When my husband and I began exploring non-monogamy, Ally was instrumental in helping us navigate all the new terrain and uncertainty that comes along with it. Whether it’s identifying boundaries or finding new uncharted curiosities, Ally is able to hold the space for whatever emerges with so much care and heart. Her passion for working with the deeper levels of human experience is clear.
I can’t recommend her highly enough.
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Lily M.
married woman
