Opening Up On Your Own Is Challenging 


The constant pressure from societal norms like the 'The Relationship Escalator' and a lack of peer support from well-meaning but ignorant friends and family mixed with staunchly mono-normative couples counseling can be the perfect recipe for disaster when first opening up.

Even if you're already well into your expansive relationship journey, unexpected challenges can occur causing rupture and without the right guidance, attempts at repair can prove more damaging than healing.

  • Are your friends, family, and community criticizing or judging you for exploring non-monogamy?
  • Has keeping quiet about your lifestyle made you feel isolated causing you to not reach out when in need?
  • Is your current relationship dynamic stale or experiencing rupture in need of repair?

Without professional peer support or your Invested Relationship Blueprint, you're unnecessarily risking your relationship.

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The Invested Relationship Blueprint

Book professional peer-supported private guidance sessions to discover yours.



Like booking a guide to show you a new city or traverse a challenging trail, having a guide on your expansive relationship journey can prevent you from getting lost, or worse.


The Invested Relationship Blueprint uses an expansive relationship model to help you build and maintain a better, more mutually-fulfilling relationship that can last a lifetime. Use Private Guidance Sessions to:

  • explore the 4 phases of The Invested Relationship Blueprint:

    ✓ Inventory   ✓ Design   ✓ Build   ✓ Maintain

  • review discoveries made during any P2P workbooks or courses
  • address present relationship conflicts and confusion in real time

6x Session Bundle

Explore the four phases of The Invested Relationship Blueprint. Bundle includes 6 sessions to use within 3 months (90 days).




Not a Coach, Not a Therapist: I'm well-trained, practiced, and know what to do and what to avoid, but unlike a coach who sits on the sidelines, I'm still actively in the game, out on the field exploring every day just like you. I began a Masters Program in Clinical Psychology but left it because couples therapy is very mono-normative and there just wasn't any material on alternative relationship dynamics. I saved the money and spent the time on more relevant and immersive self-study I would've still had to do regardless.

Tailored Guidance Plans: Receive ongoing support and guidance at your preferred cadence. Flexible scheduling caters to your specific needs and lifestyle, offering sustained assistance in navigating the complexities of expansive relating.

Peer Support: Whether you're exploring non-monogamy as a couple, throuple, individual, or polycule, sessions can be tailored to your unique circumstances, ensuring that you feel supported and empowered in your choices.

Safe and Confidential Space: Discuss your desires, challenges, and triumphs in a confidential and non-judgmental environment. Your journey is yours alone, and I'm here to provide the support you need.

Hi there!


I help curious couples and individuals create and maintain the most mutually fulfilling, sustainable relationships with the highest probability of success and longevity. NBD.

Whether you call me a sexual wellness guide, The Non-Monogamy Nerd, or your carnal concierge, I'm committed to supporting you on your journey into healthy non-monogamy.

Society may put us into boxes, but that doesn't mean we have to stay there. So let's break free from who we think we should be and start living and loving the way we deserve.

"Ally just gets it. When I am in need of insight into a conflict regarding my partnerships, Ally leans in and really listens. Her responses are thoughtful and she takes my personality traits into account, which is a rare find in this space where boilerplate answers tend to be the norm." 

Jess, solo poly

"A perfect guide to brave new worlds, Ally’s one-of-a-kind mix of spiritual wisdom, sassy humor, and empathetic connection gave my wife and I much of the inspiration, and more importantly, the tools, to navigate this complicated but rewarding lifestyle."

Chris, open married couple



You don't know what you don't know. The Invested Relationship Blueprint offers a personalized roadmap to navigate the winding roads of expansive relating, ensuring your most mutually fulfilling, sustainable relationship with the highest probability of success.

If you don't want to:

 ✓ hurt yourself or your partner

✓ take unnecessary risks with your relationship

✓ waste a ton of time and money making useless mistakes

 and you are looking to:

✓ give your relationship the highest probability of success

✓ create and sustain the relationship of your dreams

✓ streamline the learning process for maximal benefit

 ...then book your private guidance bundle and start exploring The Invested Relationship Blueprint today! Your relationship will thank you.


Take the first step toward building a relationship that aligns with your authentic self.

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Book 6 sessions to be used within 3 months (90 days).

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