Ally Iseman, certified relationship coach, non-monogamy educator, and intimacy architect, has helped thousands of people build the relationships they want through intention, communication, and pleasure – without getting caught up in the binary labels of single or partnered, monogamous or open. She’s spent nearly a decade teaching people the skills and tools to create their own relationship style, one that enriches and fulfils them and their partner(s), and allows them to become the active architects of their own joy and pleasure.

Ally is a highly sought-after speaker, writer, consultant, and on-screen expert for modern relationships of all kinds, kink education, and pleasure travel. She’s also the Founder of the inclusive relationship resource platform Passport2Pleasure.com and KAVANOS, a first-of-its-kind traveling, invite-only, immersive erotic art experience.

Featured in publications like The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, GRAZIA, and Well+Good, she’s also a regular contributor to Sexual Health Magazine as well as Arya and Afterglow. Ally is also on the advisory board for ENM dating app Tabu, ProDX Health, and NOMAD Travel Groups.

Bringing a fresh, direct, and inclusive perspective, her approach is borne out of her training as an ICF Certified Relationship Coach, NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional and her own hard-won experiences in customizing her own consensually non-monogamous relationship style through decades of research and work with hundreds of clients. Whether you want to open up your relationship to include other people, or you just want to open up more authentically to each other, Ally will help you open up without breaking up!